To My Readers
My dear BPD /
Welcome to my
I've been on the
"battlefield" since 2010, helping
my fellow BPDs and non-BPDs overcome this
horrific mental disorder, developing,
improving, and refining everything that
helps my readers and clients FINALLY have
the lives they want.
probably know, officially Borderline
Personality Disorder is declared
"untreatable". Ask the specialists
and 99% will tell you there is no
treatment for it.
So what am I
doing here? What is the meaning of the
thousands of hours invested into this website
and the books I am making available? Who am
I to go against what is generally known and
accepted about borderline personality?
these questions I need to touch on several
(1) First, I
am NOT trying to prove anything to anybody.
The information I make available on this
website, in my books, and during the online
therapy and coaching sessions are meant to HELP,
INFORM, and DEVELOP those who accept and
(2) I AM an
EX-BPD sufferer MYSELF. Formally I have never been
diagnosed, but after five years of
studying psychology (3 year BA in
"Psychology" and 2 year MA in "Clinical
Psychology, Psychological Counseling, And
Psychotherapy") and lots of self-analysis,
in July 2010 I finally discovered that my
chaotic emotions, out-of-the-blue angry and
impulsive reactions, the inner void and
pain, the lack of trust in myself and people, the attitude that I'll never be
really loved and I will never get the things
that I want in life, the almost constant
feeling of abandonment although I married a
beautiful, loving, and understanding woman,
and all the contradictory thoughts and
emotions I had inside of me described the
symptoms of borderline personality
Along with the
generally known symptoms of borderline
personality, here on this website you will
find LOTS of BPD manifestations, attitudes,
and insights that are UNIQUE and cannot be
found anywhere else. I guarantee it.
(3) BPD is a
mental DISORDER, NOT a mental ILLNESS!
Mental disorders are INFORMATIONAL, while
mental illnesses are PHYSICAL.
of the physical mind (i.e. the brain) rarely
can be treated. Sufferers' condition can
only be improved with medication, diet,
physical exercises, counseling, and support.
disorder however, such as BPD, being
informational in nature, virtually can be
treated completely because we can RE-LEARN
the beliefs, thoughts, and thinking patterns
that are causing the BPD symptoms. In
practice the difference between those who
overcame their BPD and those who didn't
stands in the fact that, although ALL want
to become BPD-free, NOT ALL BPD sufferers
are willing to invest the necessary work.
(4) When I
first evaluate a client, I'm ALWAYS looking
at the big picture. This way I can determine
whether at the bottom of the symptoms
stand borderline personality structures
or something else. This step is crucial
because it determines the main strategy of
the entire therapy.
many of my BPD clients had been misdiagnosed
with Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Anxious
type disorders, or Narcissistic Personality
present symptoms specific for two or more
mental disorders. Personality disorders
usually being rooted in certain early life
experiences, the dominant symptoms are set
apart from the non-dominant ones based on
the type of the early life experiences and
the presenting symptoms.
As far as BPD
vs. Bipolar Disorder goes, from DSM-IV stand
point as well as from my experience these
two disorders exclude each other. In
other words, one can't have BPD and Bipolar
Disorder at the same time. More details in
article. It is also true that many BPD
sufferers have symptoms that resemble
Bipolar Disorder, especially those who are acting
in. AGAIN, a CORRECT diagnosis can be
reached ONLY by looking at the big picture
of a client's symptoms. This means that present
symptoms, present cognitions, and past life
events and experiences are taken into
When the main
mental disorder is not BPD but has BPD type symptoms
intertwined, the main
disorder should always be treated first.
being constructed by people, it follows an
evolutionary path very similar to the way
people and societies develop over time.
If we look at
both people and science at one particular
moment in time, their stage of development
may seem predetermined, stable. HOWEVER, if
we look at them over decades and centuries,
we can always see clearly that development,
evolution is rather "fluid". It flows from
one stage into the next.
treatments, achievements that were
"impossible" in the past, became "possible"
in the present.
rather say that present day "possibles" are
discoveries and new understandings
accumulated on top of the "impossibles" of
(6) A mentally
healthy and a brain afflicted by BPD are
basically working the same way. Their
"mechanics" are the same (the difference
stands in the hormonal functioning that is
driven by the thinking processes). Between one
person having been grown up in a healthy environment and
the other one in an unhealthy environment,
the ways their brains think differ. Thus a
BPD person and a non-BPD person think, feel,
and react differently when facing same /
is based on the scientifically accepted
"workings" of the human mind and brain, and
having them adapted to the special needs and
problems of BPD.
I built my
treatment as I was first using it, testing
it, and refining it ON MYSELF.
negative irrational emotions and maladaptive
behaviors are caused by unhealthy
cognitions, while rational emotions and
adaptive behaviors have at the bottom
healthy cognitions ("positive thinking" or
"good thoughts" as they are popularly
called). My treatment addresses a special
type of cognitions that are scientifically
called central cognitions. These central
cognitions are the base of our
identities - our personalities, and are
represented first by belief systems that
are describing ourselves, other people, and the
world in general, second by thinking
patterns (e.g., the "black and white"
thinking style), and third by emotional and
behavioral patterns (i.e. automatic /
impulsive emotional and behavioral
"steers" one's thinking from the negative to
the positive. Thus, it DOES NOT have any
negative side effects.
Q: "Is my
A: Not yet.
Q: "Does it
A: Yes! I
stand behind it with a 100% Money Back
Q: "What is
the success rate of your treatment?"
A: On average,
2 out of 3 clients who have bought the book program
achieved permanent significant reduction and
elimination of the painful symptoms. With
online therapy the success rate is higher.
Q: "I'd like
to wait until your treatment gets
A: That's okay
with me, it's your choice. However
validation could take years. And remember,
my treatment is built on the scientifically
accepted working principles of the human
mind. That includes YOU TOO! THUS, it is
MORE likely that it WILL WORK FOR YOU too
than not. Again, it's your choice.
happens if I want a refund?"
A: All my
downloadable products come with a 100% Money
Back Guarantee. Send me an email saying "I
want refund", put in your unique order number
and that's all. In maximum 24 hours I will
process your refund.
live on the other side of the world. Why
should I trust you Michael?"
A: I actually
don't expect you to trust me right away.
Here on the website I am making available lots of
free information: articles,
am also giving YOU lots of free tips
to use immediately.
The best way
to get a first hand feeling of what I'm
talking about is to scroll to the top of this
page, put in your first name and email
address into the form and I will send you: my free ebook
called "Surviving The Borderline Hellhole"
and a 12 Day Email Series with unique
information and insights on borderline
ONLY after you
RESONATE with this information and SEE that
it ACTUALLY works, I can expect you to trust
me and decide to invest in my products and
Q: "Where are
your products and services listed?"
A: You can
access them here.
Q: "Where can
I contact you for further information?
A: You can
write me at
Michael.BPD@gmail.com . I answer emails
personally in maximum 24 hours.
Thank You and
I wish you well!